Speech-less
Off late, I am working a lot with voices. Ohh..Did I mention my course of Voice –Over Artist that I took last year. They taught me how to play with tone but right now, I am writing about telephonic conversations. People judge a lot by the voice they hear. I do transition coaching on phone and have heard my coaches react sharply to different voice-modulations.
While a picture may be worth a thousand words, a voice is priceless. Many things a voice can reveal that are worth knowing about someone. Certainty, cooperativeness, authority, and attention are natural traits that are visible :) on phone, and a savvy person knows how to leverage them .From umm’s to huh’s, voice is filled with signals that might make a person repeat, skip, or rephrase a question. I do that a lot to get cues in training hall.
In the world that we are in, Internet rules our life. We talk with fingers and learn with eyes glued to computers. Long that you spoke to an old friend wishing New Year. It’s about e-cards and sms.
A lot of conflict resolutions can happen in colleagues if you do not cramp the mail box and call the person. The more we learn with our eyes and tell with our fingers, the less we’re hearing what’s being said. Voice communication will prove ever more valuable as the social networking and search engine optimization crowd our world.
A word that comes from a person’s mouth and not their keyboards is going to become as precious as ever. Number-crunching will get the point across, but voices amplify the meaning.
Listen up.
January 4th, 2012 at 8:46 pm
My new year resolution, continued from last year is learning the art of being a good listener.
Hope at least one fine day I’ll be a good listener.
January 5th, 2012 at 10:59 am
Rightly said. Voices do reflect a lot about the person. Many a times what eyes cant detect our ears do. As a recruiter I telephonic conversations with so many strangers whom I have not seen but the imaginary personality of that person that my mind fabricates is astonishingly so near to the reality.
January 15th, 2012 at 8:55 pm
soon enough a time will come when u have to learn the art of reading between the lines of an e mail or an sms !!!!!!